Please read this BEFORE you do the meditation at the end of the article:
1. What is a “Higher Self”?
The Higher Self is your true Self. It is connected deeply to God/All That Is, and is an eternal, omnipotent, conscious, and intelligent being. It never incarnates as its whole self on earth. The one who you identify as “you”, is only a small projection of this Divine Self. This does not mean the “you” on earth is a lesser being. You are here to bring more experience, and learning to yourself, and to keep evolving as a soul. And as the earthly “you”, you forget who you truly are. Your Higher Self speaks to you through your Inner Voice, always guiding you, helping you. You truly are your Higher Self, but just for the while you are on earth, the part of you that is on earth is aware of itself only as the one on earth.
2. Why would it help to be one’s Higher Self in meeting a soulmate?
When we are focusing only on our earthly awareness, we might not be fully aware of what is right for us. We might think we know, but most often we don’t. When you are doing something as important as calling a soulmate to you — be it a romantic partner, your future child, your future friend, or your future colleague — make a list of the qualities you seek, and do so from a position of higher awareness. When you do this from the awareness of your Higher Self, you will be manifesting a soulmate who is truly right for you at this time, and not call one your ego thinks is right. When we are operating from the level of awareness of our Higher Self, our thoughts are beautiful, our emotions are bright, and our vibration is high. And in life, we attract to ourselves mostly people of the same vibration. So, it will be best that we operate from our highest awareness, and attract to ourselves the most compatible soulmate. This ensures a much happier relationship, greater spiritual growth, and happiness.
3. IMPORTANT NOTES ABOUT THE MEDITATION:
i) Do it at least once a day. Doing twice – morning and evening would be much more beneficial.
ii) In case you do not know about the colors and positions of the chakras (energy centers) in our bodies, here is a picture to help you:
Crown chakra: Top of the head, Violet/Purple
Third Eye: In the forehead between the eyebrows, Dark Blue/Indigo
Throat chakra: Throat, Blue
Heart chakra: Heart area, Emerald Green
Solar Plexus chakra: Upper abdomen, Yellow
Sacral chakra: 2” below belly button, Orange
Root chakra: End of spine, tailbone area, Ruby Red
iii) The last part of the meditation, where I ask you to press the tips of your thumb and index finger is based on an NLP technique called “Anchoring”. When you do this enough number of times, you can bring back the feelings you had during the meditation, by simply pressing the tips of your thumb and index finger. You can choose right or left hand for this purpose, but make sure you are consistent in which side you use. Anchoring is useful because you can bring back the effects of this meditation, even when you are not meditating, by pressing the thumb and index finger together. So effectively, you can bring your Higher Self awareness to you as many times as you want, and whenever you want.
The meditation video:
The audio version of this meditation:
This is the 2nd part of a blog series on “How to Meet Your Soulmate”. The first in the series is here: https://www.swatinigam.com/meet-soulmate-part-1/
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Excellent. This is certainly helping me to find myself and my soul mate.
Thank you <3.
Hi Swati, I appreciate the insights you provide in your blogs. I signed up to receive free ebook on how to read auras but I never got the confirmation e-mail. I checked my spam folder and it’s not there. Please advice. Thank you
Sara, can you forward me your confirmation email to swati@ThePurpleFlower.com please?
How wonderful this meditation is 🙂 learning my chakras and my higher self to enable me to find my soul mate 🙂 thank you xo
So glad this is helping you Lyne <3.
This meditation was difficult. IT was hard to see the light in the head. IT was a bit fast. I’ll get it with more practice?.. Thank you
Pia, even if you don’t actually “see” the light, don’t worry. Many people don’t see. But they feel or visualize. So do whatever feels easy for you — seeing, visualizing, imagining or feeling. It all works exactly the same way. Hugs!
Thank you. It was easier to feel energies. I feel peace and love. And bigger?
Pia, I absolutely LOVE that you got the feeling of being “bigger”. That is how we feel when we are one with our Higher Selves consciously. I’m soooo happy you got this result. Would love to know how it goes with you with this meditation <3 <3
What a beautiful healing energy, Swati! My headaches are gone! Thank you and thanks for the meditation! Very intense!
Love
Beatrice
((((Beatrice))))) Thank you so much for your loving words! <3
Dear Swati. Thank you for helping me understand beter. I have questions. Yesterday I woke up happy and joyful, then all of a sudden my feelings changed towards confusion, lack of enthusiasm. The meditation did’nt gott well. I was cramping in the third chakra, painful. I tried to breathe it away. I also felt some irritation in my second chakra. During the day I was struggling. It was hard to pinpoint what they wanted to tell me. Unfortunately a dear friend of mine got to act as a garbagebin. I’m really sorry for that. My friend is more advanced than I, and probably knows what I need to become more whole as a human. But obviously can not tell me what to do, and I want to know what’s ahead.
Is it neccesary to close yourself everyday against outer energies/souls. Invaders? May you help me with some of the issues? I would be very glad. Thank you again <3
Dear Pia,
The most important thing is, did you go to the doctor to make sure all is well? No matter what alternative healing we do, we should always consult our doctors when in pain or any discomfort, just to make sure we are safe. I hope you are feeling a LOT better by now. Please let me know. I don’t usually close myself, because I feel very protected and safe from everything, but I know that many people do shielding everyday and it makes them feel a lot better. So if you feel intuitively guided, you should absolutely shield yourself everyday and ask Archangel Michael to be with you and keep you protected and safe always.
Do let me know how you are feeling.
Much love,
Swati
Thank you, thank you, thank you! I stumbled upon this page when I needed it the most.
I’m so glad Angela! (((hugs)))
Thank you so much Ms. Swathi. I practiced the meditation on connecting to my higher self, and I feel absolutely refreshed, and peaceful.
I have on question, will practicing this meditation, increase my concentration power, as over a past few days, I am not able to concentrate on my work properly. Thank you once again, it feels wonderful!
Dear Amala, yes, practicing this meditation daily will certainly center you <3. Hugs!
swati I have a severe problem in identifying my soul mate as my life partner. can you help me in this matter. I m unable to see the video of your meditation if you could email me this. so I would be able to view it.
Sirah…we each have many soulmates. I am not talking of the “twinflame theory” here. So relax. You don’t need to identify. You only need to follow the guidance, and keep doing the meditations, the process, and allow your most compatible soulmate to walk into your life. Why are you unable to see the video? Please let me know the error you get. Love, Swati
Thank you so much. I am trying to practice the meditation hoping it will help with my pain. I have 4 bars, 2 plates & 22 screws in my neck. Will the hardware in my neck interfere with my chakra in my throat? The meditation has helped me feel calmer and I had a great day today!
Thank you Cheryl! No the hardware will not interfere with the throat chakra. Just intend that it will only help you in everyway <3
Dearest Swati
do you have a meditation or video for Twinflame?
No, I don’t right now, but will be making one. It is in my list of meditations to record :-). How are you doing?
Dearest Swati
hope you are fine.
i am going great.
i have a good news to share with you, i am getting married on the 20th Sep. Send me and Yashvan your blessings and prayers 🙂
Love
Neha
Dearest Swati
hope you are fine.
i am doing great.
i have a good news to share with you, i am getting married on the 20th Sep. Send me and Yashvan your blessings and prayers 🙂
Love
Neha
again cant tell you how much Swati that i found ur website again i also had downloaded that free aura book but had different phone and in the time i was doing it… i got anothr new phone lol if tht made sense but tried to rwget it and wouldn let me tho i to cant see video or audo but going to try again my problem is i lost my husband tad over yr ago july 4 real quick to cancer and im sickly and have lupus so i dont get out but so much in need for 2 reasons to rent out room for finaces but also this lonliness is horrible how can u even meet ppl when ur sick n dont get out much? ive been talking to my guides even more lately and unfornately had to learn some life lessons you cant trust hardly been so hurt over ppl claiming to be friends you can take this off if you want and its to personal but didn no how else to ask u Nameste your such a blessing angel hugs<3
Beautiful Teresa, I am so sorry you have had such a hard time. If you want, you can always email me at my email address from my contact page. I do believe you can get well. Have you tried to change nutrition to get well? I have heard really good things about “Earth Based Diet”. There is a website and book on it.
Thank you so much swati No hun ive never tried one…. i live on741 @ month and barely survive by time pay bills so hard to buy good food but lol i dont even no whats really good for you I have really enjoyed finding your website again and you are a dear earth angel to so many i really apreciate that not many offer to talk to you and offer help….. This yr has been a hard one but am grateful for what i have But loving ur website just like ur blog i seen today on auto handwriting tht you will discuss later you are really helping me Nameste
I pray your troubles all vanish Teresa (((((hugs))))).
God bless you swati angel hugs<3 and Thank you so much
God bless you too Teresa! (((hugs)))