No matter what you do, someone will have something negative to say. Try not to take it personally. People judge and criticize other people’s lives when they’re not happy with their own. Follow your heart. Do what’s right for you. It’s great to consider how your choices will affect the people around you. Just know you don’t need everyone’s approval to be happy. ~ Lori Deshene
I know, “Easier said than done”, right?
It is very hard to follow this advice, and NOT hurt when people are trashing you.
It hard to do what is right by you when others are doing their best to make you feel bad or guilty.
It is hard to do what is right by you if you are always trying to please others.
It is hard to do what is right by you when you believe that you need other people’s approval to be happy.
And all this is hard when you don’t feel you are worthy. It happens when your self-esteem is dipping low. It happens when you feel others are more important than you.
You are worthy. You are important.
I know this is hard to accept, believe and LIVE just because I say so. 😀
So…here is a wonderful EFT tapping video by Brad Yates for you to tap along and really bring this change in yourself easily:
This is really cool I enjoyed reading it an love how you encourage others to be strong and self worthy.
Thank you Linda. Much love to you! <3
This is what I’ve been thinking to myself all along. However people in my life have been constantly trying to convince me Not to do this or that because others are watching but I would just tell them let them watch they are not paying my rent.. I have no obligation to them, and this makes me happy! Anyway thanks for putting it all into words better than I could ever have done.
Love your life Fredy. This is your life. You know, as long as we are not hurting another being, why shouldn’t we do what brings us happiness?