No matter who, sometimes we all feel all alone, sometimes we all feel ignored, abandoned…and unloved.
Feeling like this once in a while is OK. It passes. But do you feel this way most of the time? Has it been a long time since yo have been feeling like this?
If so, do not ignore it. You really do not need to dwell in this experience. There IS a way out. And the method is simple. All that is needed is – PERSISTENCE in this method. Do not give up. It might take some time, but it WILL work. I promise you this. 🙂
Pick one of the following sentences, or create a short statement of your own that is similar to the ones below, and repeat it mentally to yourself often:
- I am awesome, and everyone wants to be my friend.
- I am beautiful, and everyone LOVES me.
- I am absolutely enchanting, and people CRAVE my company.
- I am lovable, and people LOVE to love me!
- Why does everyone love me so much?
- Why do people crave my company?
- Why am I so loved?
Just pick one of these and tell it to yourself very often. Even if it does not feel true in the beginning, PERSIST. In fact, if it does not feel true to state something, pick one of the questions from the list above. Your mind will not mind those as much.
This is not just a senseless repetition. Here is why it works: We talk to ourselves all the time. We are constantly telling ourselves something or the other mentally. And these conversations carry your order to your subconscious mind…read below why this is important.
Our subconscious mind is listening to what we are telling ourselves. It is our subconscious mind that creates our experiences. Whatever you think with emotion, whatever you repeat with emotion, your subconscious takes as an order from you to make MORE of. It does not judge whether it is right or wrong, good or bad. It is totally obedient to you. It listens to our predominant thoughts & emotions, and takes it as — this is what he/she is focusing on, so he/she wants more of that, so I will create more experiences like that.
What I wrote above is important. There is no one punishing you. You are powerful. You are part of God. What you want will be obeyed by your subconscious mind.
Do not give up. Persist. Pick just one statement. And tell it to yourself often. Be mindful of your MENTAL DIET. Watch your thoughts for the next 30-60 days, and anytime you catch yourself thinking something sad, telling yourself something sad, or feeling sad, stop IMMEDIATELY, and tell yourself your chosen statement with emotion. Just keep telling yourself again and again.
And you WILL start to see a change in how people treat you.
You will not need to do anything else to have loving company. People always treat us according to our beliefs, thoughts, conversations about ourselves, about the world, and about people. That’s all.
You will NEVER again need to beg anyone for attention.
All you need to do is change your inner programming. And do not give up. PERSIST in this experiment. If you want to read more about this, read the works of the great author and philosopher – Neville Goddard. His work has changed many lives.
If you would like 1 on 1 coaching to help you troubleshoot a problem in your life or help you manifest more love, better health, money, or joy, book a 1-hour session with me here: https://www.swatinigam.com/one-on-one-coaching/
Evangelyn Samson says
When I read the title of this article I got interested, so when I open and read it and ask myself why I can’t do this. I was amazed, now I hope I can do this to myself, thank you for this article
I’m so glad you will do this and change things for yourself! Hugs!
Willard Randolph says
I am feeling like no matter what I do I can’t seem to please people in my life l. It seems like no matter what I do I am being condemned for all the good that I do for others
If you read what you wrote above, you have an excellent starting place to change this situation. You have written down what you do not like. Now create statements/affirmations that are opposite of what you wrote.
1. You said, “no matter what I do I can’t seem to please people in my life”. Now change that to “Everyone LOVES me!”.
2. You said, “I am being condemned for all the good that I do for others”. Now change that to, “People always thank me for anything I do for them”.
In this way, write down all the things you do not like about your life. Then write the opposite. These are your new affirmations. Pick any 1-2 affirmations and then repeat them aloud or in your mind often. Do not think or speak the negative statements anymore. You will notice that your life will start to take a beautiful turn.
I hope that helps!
How can you say those things if you are isolated and not amongst people?? Elderly people or young wife who moved far away from family? Empty Nesters?
Those are affirmations. When we work with repeating something, we end up creating it in our lives. So, for example, if someone is isolated, and they repeat the affirmation, “I am surrounded by wonderful friends and family who love me”, they will end up creating a beautiful life where they are surrounded by friends and family who love them.
Patricia Hole says
I cried when I read this, it seems so simple to do. Could the answer be this simple. I believe it is, but as you stated the key is indeed persistence. Thank you for this article, you once again provided a key to a door that I could open, if I was willing to put in the effort.
((((Patty)))) Can you believe it, I am seeing this comment only now in 2022?
You have given hope to someone who had lost her’s. Thank you!
I feel grateful I could do that for you. I hope you are feeling a lot better now.