Who among us all is untouched by death? It seems to be the final truth. And yet, it does
not have to be the end of communication. Because from what I have experienced, life goes on. I don’t mean for you, me, the ones left behind. I am talking about the ones who have “died”. They go on, with us, around us, loving us always.
This April my mother left this physical world. I live in the USA. She lived in India. My brother called me and told me that she fell ill, and things got out of hand within a couple of days. And he asked me to come home right away so I could meet her. I left for India the next day.
My brother and sister-in-law met me at the Delhi International Airport as soon as I arrived, and drove me straight to the hospital that night. On the way they told me that there was no hope, and she was on life support. They said the doctors were asking them when they should take her off life support, but my brother and SIL felt that our father should make that decision. They were absolutely right.
But how does one say yes to end the life of one’s soulmate? Even if that was the only thing to do? How does one live with such a decision? How can one not wonder — what if I had not said yes…what if she had recovered? How does a person make such a decision? My brother and SIL asked me to talk to our dad about this. I kept wondering how to bring this up to him. He is 100% blind, and my mom was his eyes. I know how much he loved her. They spent their entire lives together…they got married when they were very young. My mother was only 17. They grew up together.
As we drove towards the hospital, and I thought over how I could bring this up to my dad who was old, blind, broken, scared…I suddenly saw a billboard, with electrically lit up words in bold letters, “DO NOT MAKE ANY DECISION RIGHT NOW”. It was part of an ad of course, but the rest of it was hidden from me. Only these words flashed before me. I knew immediately that this was a message from Archangel Michael. I was being asked to NOT approach dad with this decision. And yet, I didn’t know what else could be done. I was confused, but I knew God/Spirit/Creator – whatever you call this force, had a plan. I had to trust.
When I went inside the ICU room of the hospital to see my mother, the one who I saw on the bed…I don’t think I even recognized her. I knew she was around, and felt some sadness from her, but the one who was in the bed with all those wires was a shell.
When I went home to my dad, my SIL (who went home before I did) told me that he went off to sleep, obviously because he did not want to meet me and face this decision. My SIL asked me not to wake him up, and to talk to him the next morning instead. To be honest, I was relieved. I didn’t know what to say to him, or how. Added to that was the message I received. What did Archangel Michael want to say to me?
The next morning my SIL woke me up telling me that there was a call from the hospital. My mother had suffered a heart attack and they could not revive her. It was over. She had left. And I understood what Michael wished to let me know through the message, “DO NOT MAKE ANY DECISION RIGHT NOW”. My mother was simply hanging around so I could “meet” her. And then she took matters in her own hand, and her Higher Self relieved her of the suffering without my dad having to make any tough decisions. She did not want him to make this decision, or to have to live with such a decision. Isn’t that love? Beautiful love. She saved her soulmate from having to say yes to ending her life. And I am thankful to her for that. I don’t think my dad could have been able to do this. I wish no one ever has to make such a decision for their loved ones.
After that, the days of the ceremonies, cremation etc went in a blur. My first and only concern was my dad. Thankfully communication with my mother was very easy. Even my niece (my brother’s daughter) could sense her presence easily. My mother had a great sense of humor, and she made full use of that throughout this process. My dad was broken. But her constant presence made it all better. She found all the ceremonies really funny, and was making fun of them constantly. I could feel her euphoria. She had met death, and knew it was not the end, but only freedom into greater existence. And she was happy…boy was she happy! Her happiness made me feel really happy too. I don’t know what people around me thought of me…her only daughter, did not shed a single tear. How could I? She was around all the time, with her wisecracks. When her body was brought home, everyone was solemn. When they uncovered her face, her first statement to me was, “At least you guys could have dyed my hair!”. I had to do everything to stop myself from laughing. I asked her, “Really?? Is that all you can say? Dad is crying. Everyone else is crying, and you are bothered about your hair?” Later I told my niece what my mom said, and my niece told me, “Grandmother had become very particular about her hair…she always wanted it dyed and kept well”. So that made sense!
One day my dad was upset and crying that he had lost a ring…a ring that my mother had
put away somewhere safely. He said, “She is not around anymore. How will I ever know?” Then he remembered I could talk to her, and he asked me, “Why don’t you ask her?”. I did. But got no response immediately. So I knew she would let me know somehow. I walked to the other side of their bed, to go out of the room, when “something” told me to open the drawer on that side of the nightstand. I did. And there was the ring! It is just amazing how easily Spirit can communicate with us.
She told me a lot of things to tell dad to help him through his grief. I needed to tell him again and again how happy she was. In the last few years she had been really unhappy because of her failing health. But now she was free. She felt really good. That comforted dad. It comforted him to know she existed, she was around, and that she hadn’t vanished into thin air. He felt comforted that I had told him things that only she would know.
And I am blessed that I have many loving, super psychic friends, who kept emailing me while I was in India. They supported me, and they gave me messages from mom. You know who you are ((((((hugs))))). I was focused on my dad. I didn’t have time to think how I was. My friends made me feel loved and supported.
Being able to talk to the ones on the other side of the veil…the ones who have “died”, is a blessing. The end of communication, and wondering whether your loved one exists or not, whether they are alright or not, is what hurts the most. So when you are able to talk to them, it makes things a lot better.
Of course, the grief over the loss of the physical presence is something one never gets over. It something you learn to live with. But it eases your pain if you can talk to them.
Learn to communicate with your crossed over loved ones yourself:
I am going to write down a short procedure for spirit communication here for you all to practice, if you wish to learn this. In the beginning you might feel you are just imagining it. You might feel you are making it up. Maybe sometimes you will. But here is what Archangel Michael told me when I said to him long back, “But how will I know I am really hearing you? I could be making it up. It could be all wrong!”. And he said, “Then dare to be wrong”. So its alright to be wrong sometimes. Spirit communication is not an exact science yet. I know it will be one day. But right now it is not. So we will be wrong sometimes. And that is alright. We can dare to be wrong. We don’t always have to be right. After all what is more important? Making sure we are 100% right all the time and not communicating at all….OR….daring to be wrong sometimes, and knowing that even if we did not get 100% of what our loved ones said, we did connect, we did feel their love, we did hear part of what they were trying to say?
If you have someone in Heaven you miss, and you wish to talk to them, here is what you do:
1. Close your eyes, and sit in a relaxed position.
2. Surround and fill yourself with God’s beautiful protective white light, and pray that you meet the one you are calling. Pray that you will always be receiving truthful communication, and will never be misguided. This prayer to God alone can help a lot. After all, who is more powerful than our loving Creator?
3. Now count back slowly from 100 to 0, imagining that you are going within, with each count.
4. When you are done counting, call the person you wish to talk to. See/visualize/feel their image in your mind.
5. Now begin talking to them as you would if they were in front of you. Do not expect sounds. You might hear sounds too if you are highly clairaudient, but in general, the communication will be as feelings and/or pictures. You might see words. You might feel like you are talking to yourself! If nothing happens, pretend to talk, and pretend to get replies from them. Soon, with practice, you will be able to ease into this, and you will soon start getting confirmations that you are not making it all up. For example..the way my mother showed me where she kept my dad’s ring…there was no way for me to know where it was. And there was no reason for me to want to open that drawer in the nightstand.
Spirit communication is easy. You can do it. But you will need to trust. And practice. And trust. And pray. And practice. It will work. You do not have to end communication with them. You never really need to say goodbye. They will always be with you. They exist in a different form now. As a wonderful friend said to me after her 16 year old son crossed over, “He is not gone. He exists in a different form. And I just have to get used to him existing in a different way.”
If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask me in the comments below.
Beautiful and unbelievable experience
Thank you Jaya didi :-)).
Hi. I want to di it can you guide me.
Did you try the instructions here in this blog? You just need a little practice and you will begin to see results.
Beautiful post.it is so relieving that we can talk to our beloved ones even when they are gone.
Yes didi, that does bring relief. And I experienced it first hand. That is why I felt I should write down the steps here so others could practice it too if they wish to :-).
Hi,
I had someone extremely close to me pass. I know he is with me because I see the signs; with him u never had to 2nd guess. I at times see a light, stand still then moves quickly across the room. I know its him. We had a strong bond, very strong so I know his energy helps him to connect with me easily.
I would love for him to talk to me because i know there is alot that he needs to tell me. My problem is when I was younger I did things that the dark attached itself to me. I found the love of God and walked on that journey. It said, it will return and did nothing to make it return. I’m thinking if I try to communicate with my husband and best friend I’m opening the door to something else. Is it possiable to do that? Would my husband protect me? Could it pretend to be my husband then the whole thing starts over again? I now live alone with no one protecting me. My question is: how do I get around this to talk to the love of my life? Or i cant?
Thank you for sharing this beautiful and touching story, Swati! It feels so good to know that our loved ones who have crossed over are just “a thought away.” I loved hearing about your mother’s sense of humor!!! How perfect! I send Love to your dad and see him “seeing” his beloved more clearly now. He doesn’t need his physical eyes to see her; he can see her more easily now through his heart.
Thank you also for posting the procedure for us to communicate with our deceased loved-ones. I followed it and was able to connect with my grandmother. She sounded so happy! She told me that she loves where she is and what she is doing. There is a lot more “color” in her life now, where before (in the physical) it seemed dull to her. She gets to help many people/beings now and this is very fulfilling for her. She also said that she is helping my mother with a challenge she is facing at this time. She is inspiring mom with thoughts & ideas, and creating synchronicities for her. She seemed happy to be able to do this for us. Thank you for inspiring me to connect with her! It was soooo nice. 🙂
That was soooo beautiful Dumari! So glad you connected with your grandmother. This is something all deceased people, and people who’ve had near death experiences say — the colors are soooo much more vivid there. They actually make dying sound like fun. hahaha!! I’m sure it must be fun for the ones who cross over. Its just not fun for those left behind. But I hope more and more people will forget the old concept of, “We must not disturb the dead….” like the “dead” are in the shower or something :-P. I hope more people realize that after dying, life just continues…just a bit more fun, more color, minus the physical body, but they are very much around us…in fact MORE so than ever. And I hope more people will give up their fears of the dead. Doreen explained it best when she said that movies have created this scary image of the dead in our minds, and that the dead are actually much better looking than us because they are without the fears and worries that mar our lives. She said that we are pretty scary looking compared to the dead. LOL!
Hey, another funny thing that happened when I was going through the process to connect with my grandmother…
I visualized the Light all around me. I connected with my heart. Then I thought, “Who do I want to connect with?…Yes, Grandma.” As I was starting to count, I heard, “I am here,” and at the same time that her face showed up in my mind’s eye.
I thought, “Oh, I still need to count! 100 numbers is going to take too long, I will do the short version and count 10 – 1.” Hahaha!
I sensed her looking at me with so much love and saying, “M’ija (short for how she affectionately would call me in Spanish “my daughter”). Do whatever you need to do to connect with me, but know that I’m already here. I’ll wait ’til you are done counting.”
I finished my quick counting version and then “started” our official conversation. Isn’t that funny?!
LOL! The 100 count is not needed by you Dumari. You have been doing angel readings for years. So you can get into the “zone” really quickly. I sometimes get that too when I am trying to communicate with Spirit. I feel sometimes I am not in the zone enough..so I continue deepening, while they stand there patiently, telling me they are already there, but will wait for me to do whatever it is that I wish to do. LOL!
Hi Swati
I did your meditation last night
I got great info and couldn’t remember what I got until this afternoon (after a very stressful situation).
In the meditation my son told me (He is the one I did the meditation to talk to).
“Mom, sometimes people have predestined paths for their lives, and you can help and care and love them…but their path is still their path…..and YOU (me) can’t change that.”
I have talked with him a lot but this info was so needed, not only for him….but I had a huge situation that happened today and it was for that one too! Yay! I feel free-er knowing it!
Thank you so much for sharing that meditation!
Love you <3
Robin
Dear Robin,
That is so beautiful. I am so happy you connected with your son. I hope you do continue talking with him, and write a book on your conversations with him. His wisdom will teach many. Thank you so much for sharing your lovely experience here.
Much love! :-)))))
Hi i read ur post and i tried communicating with my son but somehow i didnt work. I dont know why. And i want so bad to talk to my son its now been a year for him and it hurts so bad i wish i could just hold him but i cant and i want so much for his spirit to just visit me. Im staying focas but its just not happening. What else can i do.. please help
Dear Bonita, don’t lose hope. Keep practicing each day. This kind of communication comes with practice, faith and trust. At first pretend you are talking with him…imagine him before you, and then say something to him. Then pretend to hear the words you think he would say. This will open up your hearing more. Later you might feel you are hearing only your thoughts, but you can ask him for a sign to prove to you that he is the one speaking. You will get the sign in the coming days. ((((hugs))))
Hi, I recently lost my 43yr old brother. He was deaf and could not speak. I always thought that we would be together in our old age and I was planning towards making sure my husband and I as well as my brother are well taken care of. Now he is gone and everything seems so futile. I work 600km away from home to make sure he will be ok and now he is gone. It all seems like a waste of valuable time. I am devasted. I miss him. I long to see his smile and that twinkle in his eye when he saw me on weekends. It feels like my heart has been ripped out of me. If you can help me in any way – please email me. Regards. L
Linda, even before I could finish reading your email, I saw a youngish looking face with a dazzling smile. Is that him? I lost my brother last December too…I understand how you feel ((((hugs)))).
hi swati
I tried to communicate with my mum and tried to talk to her but my tears started to roll over my cheeks.. did not see any replies. I also saw dark shadows and kind of white-purple colors. I will try again.. swati is it normal to feel like crying during this practice?
Oh Neha…that means you felt her presence. She was with you! Her presence touched your heart so much that you started crying. That is wonderful. Keep practicing…and you will be able to communicate too. The colors you saw are because you were activating your third eye. <3
Thank you swati for these wonderful words.
a quick note to you I wish to tell you I have done MHealing course (1st phase) two months ago.. due to my separation problem I landed in this course to find peace and clear my karma. do you know about Magnified Healing?
No I don’t Neha. 🙂
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see below link
http://www.magnifiedhealing.com/
let me know your opinion my dear swati
love and light <3
Sounds great Neha! All healing systems are wonderful. Use it and heal your emotions. I hope you feel better soon :-).
Dearest Swati
thank you for your wonderful words 🙂
You’re welcome <3
Dearest Swati
hope you are fine.
i am going great.
i have a good news to share with you, i am getting married on the 20th Sep. Send me and Yashvan your blessings and prayers 🙂
Love
Neha
HI SO MY DAD PASSED AWAY WHEN I WAS ONLY 15 I REALLY MISS HIM I TRIED EVERYTHING THAT IO COULD TO HEAL BUT NOTHING SEEMED TO WORK I BEEN STRUGGLING A LOT AND I ALSO LOST MY GOOD FRIEND TAYLOR SHE PASSED AWAY WHEN I WAS 12 AND I LOST MY PAPA WHEN I WAS ONLY 11 I REALLY MISS THEM CAN YOU PLEAS TELL ME WHAT THEY ARE TRYING TO SAY TO ME I REALLY WANT TO BE ABLE TO CONNECT WITH THE ANGELS I WOULD LOVE TO GET A ANGLE READING ?
Lindsey, I am so sorry for your loss. That is really horrible. ((((hugs)))) I hope you have others in your family and friends you are close to. You can practice what I have taught here in this article on how to contact departed loved ones. Everyone can do it. To get an angel reading, please go to:https://www.swatinigam.com/tempflower/services/angel-readings/ and then select which type of reading you want, and send the payment. Then email me to set up a time <3.
I want you to know Im pleased to have seen your site. I will ask for guidance as you note, from God in my connection so that I may be allowed through his name to communicate with a man who was the love of my life for aprox 27 years, Ed. Its hard for me to say,” was”. I will always have love in my heart for his memory.,his spirit. I have great pain, and I miss his form so much. I will pray and follow as you note to do. I want you to know , I had done this method before I saw your site , without counting, and asked for some kind of contact . The next morning I looked at his wrist watch and the time and date changed. It was the month and year of his passing. 5-14 ( I am sorry for your loss)
((((Deborah))))) I will pray for you.
Hi, I lost my first love. The father of my son my first everything almost 7 years ago. I suffer of depression because of this. And people tell me I need to move on and let him rest in peace I also have a friend of a friend who told me she has visions and one of them is of my lost love and she tells me he is frustrated and d sad and did because of me crying for him and begging god and him to bring him back I don’t let his spirit rest in peace or get to where he needs to get to. I have tried to communicate with him and according to me I kinda and dads were my own prayers or questions that I ask him. I’m devasted :, ( and I have no idea what to do anymore. All I wish is to speak to him and didnt were d tell him I love him and miss him and make sure he is ok maybe that would help me to put my heart back together and be in peace wi th myself and also to let him r.i.p. any suggestions or opinions please help.
Dear Diana,
I am truly sorry for your loss. ((((((hugs))))) It is so hard to deal with grief. What your friend said is true. If you keep crying and do not live your life fully, and keep begging for him to come back, he is going to be sad. The message I get about him is that he is fine otherwise. But he will be much happier if you learn to live your life fully despite his not being around physically. Try meditation, exercise, EFT tapping, learning new things…and everything to learn to live even though he is not around physically. He will be MUCH happier if you do this. And you know what else will happen if you learn to let go of his physical self and calm yourself down? You will be able to learn how to communicate with him. When we are crying all the time, our extreme grief stops us from being able to hear our departed loved ones. Also remember, that even though he is not physical anymore, it does not mean he is not around you. He is often around you, hoping you will learn to cope. Our loved ones never really leave us. And you will see him again. Either by developing your clairvoyance, or in dreams…and finally when you go back home to Heaven.
It is never easy when we lose our loved ones to death. And this is a tragedy almost all of us need to face at some point of life. Sometimes many times :(. But we need to learn to live even without them around us physically. I will pray for you…
Much love to you,
Swati
Hi,
I recently lost my boyfriend to an accident. I just spoke to him an hour before the incident and he was supposed to call me back an hour later. The incident has left me devastated as we were also planning our wedding soon. We had been together for 7 years and we couldn’t live without each other as we grew closer to each other in the past years. I love him a lot and suddenly everything has come to a halt, I don’t know how to move on.. There has been no last words no goodbye just silence that seems never ending..
I can’t seem to concentrate on your method but I really want to connect to him.
Please help!
I am so sorry for your loss. When did this happen? If this is too recent, you might have a harder time doing this exercise, because the grief is so strong, focusing on communication is hard. However, please know, that even if you can’t hear him, he can see you, and hear you. Even if you can’t hear him, please keep talking to him. At times like these, faith is what helps most. Speaking from having faced the loss of people close to me, I know how hard this is…and yet, the only way we get strength through grief is having faith that they are always with us. Much love to you. Please feel free to come here and talk to me.
Hi Swati,
This is Nikhil From Pune, India, I am very happy that you able to connect with your MOM.
I lost my MOM last year in June because of cancer, I want to know whether she fine or not, is every think is OK with her. is she want to talk to me.
I heard that if we lost some one, we should not miss them, it will make their path difficult for their journey. but i want to talk to her. I tried your approach to talk to her but not able to connect with her. can pls help me.
Hi Nikhil,
Truly sorry for your loss. I did not talk to your mom, but my angels tell me that everyone who crosses over is fine. That life after death is beautiful. We go back “home”, and are free of all suffering, all pain, all worries, all problems. So going by that you can safely assume that your mom is doing good. I am sure she would like to talk to you. And from my experience, I know that they can always hear us. It is not your missing her that is a problem for her. But if we stay stuck in grief in such a bad way that we refuse to live our lives joyfully, then our grief becomes a problem to them. Just like they do not want their loved ones to be unhappy when they were here, even in Heaven, they want their loved ones to be happy.
Please see if you can get these books that I had really liked. They might help you in developing your mediumship skills (we can all do it). Practice. The more you practice, the better it gets. Do not give up.
Here are the books:
1. Don’t Kiss Them Good-bye by Allison DuBois.
2. How to be a Happy Medium by Moriah Rhame-Brock
Hope this helps you,
Swati
Hello my name is Shannon im 23 years old and just seen your story when I seen it I thought omg this is what I need I lost my grandma less then a year ago and its been so hard to know she isn’t here anymore I miss her soo much she was my heart I was wondering if what you said works for everyone I would like to try it but I am to nervous I want to know she is still around I can’t even try to talk to her because I feel like I am just talking to my self out loud if you could give me any advice I would relly appreciate it thank you
I’m so sorry for your loss Shannon (((hugs))). Yes, anyone can talk to their departed loved ones. But it takes practice and trust. So start practicing. And in the beginning pretend to talk. Soon you will see that you start getting answers that cannot be yours, and can only be your grandma’s.
Thank you so much for replying did you practice or did it just happen for you sometimes things happen in my house like the other day a ash tray fell off my sink when I was in the shower me and my boyfriend was sitting in our liveing room and we heard a loud crash and whn I went in to the kitchen and something fell off the table and ever since she passed I been finding dimes everywere I want to belive it is her but I dont let myself to believe it I think I just let myself to believe it is because I miss her so much and I know it takes a spirit alot of energy to move things do you believe it is her or is it just in my head
It used to happen every now and then. And I think it does for most people. But I practiced and trained to do it more consciously.
This is very helpful I lost my mother almost 4 months ago and I’m trying to learn how to communicate with her this information has helped me a lot I’m hoping I can have contact with my mother as soon as possible her and I were very close thankyou for this information and for creating this website ☺
I am so sorry for your loss April. I hope you are able to learn to communicate with her soon. Hugs!
Hi. I lost my dad when i was only 5 and i also lost my closest cousin just this year. I don’t want to communicate with them because I’m a little scared for that. Someone told me, they know that and they will only communicate with me in a way that I’m good with. So, they show up in my dreams sometimes. My dad only came for 3 times and I got the feeling everything is good with him. He’s fine. My cousin tho, already showed up 3 times (within a year) with the same dream. We are on holiday with the families (which we used to do) and he starts crying really hard. He is already sick and I only hold him close and hug him. I’m scared that he’s not okay but I don’t dare to ask him either! What to do?!
Nina, yes it is true that spirit communicates with us the way we feel comfortable. The best thing to do when you feel a spirit is distressed is, pray for them. What happens is, after death, the first place we go to is according to our beliefs, or whatever the mind creates. It is usually not a real place/reality, even if it is lovely. Sometimes people create a sad or fearful place for some reason. When we pray for them, they are released from the fearful or sad “place” they created and lifted into “home”. Ask the angels to go lift him up from any sadness, if he is sad.
Please help me if u can, my mom, my best friend died 1 month ago today. I have tried contacting her, preying, begging. I need to know things. I miss her so much. Please help me.
I’m so sorry for your loss Roxanne. Spirit has a tough time getting through to us when we are feeling really sad/upset/grieving. Not saying you must not grieve. Grieving is a healthy process. So please be gentle with yourself. Give yourself time. Cry when you want to. Talk about her often. You will see that you feel better when you talk more about her. Talk to your friends and family who love you. Remember old times with your mom and tell them about her. Also talk about how you feel. Do not ever isolate yourself. And for now have the faith that your mum IS with you, and can hear you, see you, feel your emotions too. So continue talking to your mom. Tell her how you feel. She can hear you 100%. Later when you start to feel calmer, start practicing the exercise I have given in this post and see if you are able to communicate. It will take time to build it up, so be patient with yourself.
I don’t know. I did have belief that the spirit goes on and we will be together again. My daughter died in her early 30’s a few weeks ago. We were both big believers in the spiritual world but i have not recieved a single sign or felt her presence since she died. The funeral is next week and i am terrified. I’ve lost all faith that she and i will be together again and that she is around and happy. If she could i know she would contact me but she hasn’t. Probably angry with me for not helping more when alive.
I’m so sorry for your loss Suzanna. Losing one’s child has got to be one of the worst things a mother has to face. Many times when we are grieving, the spirit is unable to send signs. They send signs, but we are unable to receive. I know that with time, when you become calmer (not saying you will get over the grief…the grief just takes on a calmer part of your life), you will see messages. Maybe in the beginning easy ones like coins found, her favorite or your favorite song playing on the radio etc. Also, when you feel calmer, do this exercise: close your eyes and slowly count down from 100 to 0. Make it slow, and imagine with each count you are going within. After 0, hold your hand out, palm facing up. Ask your daughter to hold your hand. Let me know how it feels. Hugs!
Thank you for that. I’m not coping very well because there are a lot of questions re her death and i had been banging on her door and searching for her for days when it seems she was dead inside her home. its all pretty horrific and can’t see any happiness or future for me. Im so frightened that shes alone and scared somewhere. Thank you for the reply and i’ll do what you say. xx
Please pray for her. You can pray to God, or you can even ask your angels or crossed over family and friends to make sure that she is calm, taken care of, and is at home. When someone talks to me about their loved ones who have crossed over, I do get certain feelings and impressions. Just a few minutes back someone told me about her child gone, and something wrong that was done to him. I felt confusion from his energy and prayed that he be taken home. However, when I read your message, I don’t feel any confusion or sadness from her energy. I am not getting any messages, but I do feel a silence and calm, which means she is not alone and scared. Sending prayers for you and your daughter.
you have no idea how much what you just said means to me. The funeral is wed and i am so frightened. her death is still unexplained with a lot of questions and she had an awful life. I just hope she contacts me somehow to let me know she’s ok. Thank you again for your respoonses xx
Dear Suzanna, do not be afraid. If possible, before you go to the funeral, sit somewhere peaceful by yourself, and talk to her. Even if you do not hear her, she will hear you. She will be there to hear you. And ask her then to give you a sign sometime soon. The signs are often things like coins in unexpected places, feathers, butterflies, her favorite song, or a song that will remind you of her, flickering lights etc. I really feel a lot of calmness from her. I know that in time you will learn how to communicate with her. It will not be the same as having her here physically, but then we all finally leave this world and meet everyone we love.
A thought keeps coming to mind. Often very evolved souls incarnate for really short lives, and take on a lot of hardships for various reasons that involve their further evolution. Your daughter sends so much calmness and peace that I will not be surprised if I ever find out that she is one of these very evolved souls. Send her love, pray for her, talk to her, honor your grief…take good care of yourself. When she sees you becoming calmer I know she will feel better. Sending you lots of love.
My dad passed away on Mar 1st 2016. He always kept poor feelings towards me though I did everything at my disposal to meet his needs. Towards the end he realized that he was wrong towards me and that he was misguided by some selfish relatives. He shared his thoughts with the neighbourhood folks that he was proud about his son. Now whenever I think about him tears flow my eyes uncontrollably and i feel an overwhelming feeling of love towards him as if he was not my father but my son. How i wish to be able to speak to him today.
Sudip you have such a loving, forgiving, beautiful heart. Know that you have helped your father’s soul heal because of your unconditional love. Keep practicing what I have given in this article and you will learn to talk with him. And remember that he will always hear you even now…even if you don’t hear him. So tell him what you want to tell him…rest assured he will hear. Hugs!
Dear Swati,
Thank you for sharing your experience. I have recently lost my boyfriend of 10 years, well I try not to say lost, he transitioned in September, 6 months after his daughter transitioned. The whole thing has been so traumatic for me because of the circumstances, but I have had quite a number of ADC’s from him and even his daughter. I see some people that have experience in the spirit work have said that you can communicate with loved ones that have crossed over and others say that you cannot. But I have had quite a lot of signs of communication from my bf. Just yesterday I was watching tv and 2 of the people featured shared our names. I don’t normally watch that show at the time that I did. While looking at some clothing online I also saw a tee shirt with a phrase that I said to him during one of our very 1st meaningful conversations. Prior to that I have had dreams, visions, and I have heard his voice telling me it is ok. I had a vision of him transitioning on the day of his passing, while meditating, not knowing that he was actually transitioning. A very good friend also had a vision of him while praying that day where he was sitting in a hospital waiting to see a doctor. She even saw a nurse with a clipboard. We realized our visions coincided with the time of his passing when we talked later. We were both in shock because we both felt him as very alive and well and experiencing a great amount of relief. Not knowing the reason for relief was his transition. Today makes 78 days since his passing and it very difficult for me, but his ADC’s have made this bearable. Plus other friends have dreamt him since and we all seem to have similar dreams even if they occur at different times. I wish everyone good luck in their grief journey, I know how hard it can be. All the best.
My best friend of 5 drowned yesterday his body has not been found …. I am hurt I feel like he’s hurt because this wasn’t supposed to happen he drowned saving a life … everyone made it but him ….I feel he’s confused he doesn’t know that he’s gone … so he won’t cross over I feel he won’t go until his body is found … this is the most hurtful experience
I am so sorry to read this Quaneesha. This must be so painful for you. And your friend died helping others live. I wish he had made it too. If you feel he is confused, please talk to him, and ask the angels to take him home. He will be free of hurt and confusion. I pray for you and everyone else grieving his loss…I pray that you will feel his loving presence around you soon, and hear from him that he is happy, safe, and at peace now. Much love to you. Btw, is there a connection to a little girl with curly hair with anyone – you, him or the people involved?
My best friend passed away on August 7 2019, committing suicide. He means a lot to me as his care and affection cannot be replaced by anyone else in this world. His last note to me is hurting me a lot and I am not in a position to come out of this situation. He was very good person who use to help people even when he did not have money. His memories are killing me when I all alone. I know he is with us as I could see many signs of communication that he has made.I pray for him so that he is happy on the other side of the world.As always Stay blessed my dear friend
Dear Bala, I am so sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine the pain you must be going through. I’m sending you love and praying for peace for you. When you feel up to it, take time to sit by yourself, surround and fill yourself with Divine Love (pink light), and call your beloved friend by his name in your mind. He is always aware of you now, he is aware of how you feel. And he will help you know that he is well, safe, and at peace now. After you call him, imagine him in your mind, and just silently keep sending him the Divine Love. Ask the angels to help you do this and to help you find peace. You will meet your friend one day. No one is lost forever. But till then you can find some peace with the help of your angels, and with your friend’s help. Much love to you.
My husband’s grandmother passed on September 16, 2019. She has always been “MY” grandmother since we have been married (18yrs). I lost both of my grandmothers as a small child. She took me on immediately as her grandaughter upon meeting me almost 20 yrs ago. I love her so much and so heartbroken that she is no longer here. I was at her hospital bed when she passed but I missed the funeral because of flight issues. I just want to know if she is disappointed that I couldn’t make it in time. She was a beautiful person inside and out. Missing her….